Currently in: NYC

LA in November- dates TBD, please inquire

~ heaven sent ~

MEI CARTIER

Hi, I'm Mei -

I'm so glad you're here. It means you recognize the blessing that is freedom: to explore, to desire, to challenge convention. And blessings should be handled with care- I like to think of this as curating my own heaven on earth.

You're the type that appreciates and understands this. You value connection and authentic pleasure, and know deeply that it takes two to tango, to share a dynamic that is both thrilling and warm. You're looking for someone who offers not only a pretty face and natural curves, but who can also engage intellectually, with a sense of humor. Someone who is kind and confident.

I take notice of people who are thoughtful and intentional. The type of person who reveres mother nature in any corner of the world. As a naturally giving person, I most enjoy being with partners who pour back into me- like watering a plant so you may bask in its flowers. Whether that's making the arrangements for a romantic date, a gift to show you've been thinking of me, or having a keen attention to detail that keeps our correspondence flowing smoothly, you'll find how these gestures can open doors.

I enjoy exploring my abilities both intellectually and physically. I hold a Masters as well as a personal training certification, and live a lifestyle that allows me to stay sharp in mind and body. While I enjoy stretching my capabilities, I strongly believe balance is key, and that these pursuits should not come at the cost of my peace and wellbeing. I love to travel and am an excellent vacationer and spa patron. I love a good steak, the perfect pain au chocolat, and the occasional glass of champagne. Lounging with a joint while a record spins or the sun drifts across the beach is a favorite indulgence.

If you seek someone astute, compassionate, and thrilled to experience this one precious life, we'll make a great fit. Where there is freedom, there is a choice to exercise it. Consider this your playful invitation to do just that.

Let's create heaven on earth.

~ at a glance ~

DETAILS

AGE: 30's

HEIGHT: 5'4

BODY: All natural. I keep a clean manicure and natural makeup look.

Piercings: ears

Tattoos: several visible (removed from photos for discretion).

ETHNICITY: Asian & European

EDUCATION: Master's

HOMEBASE: NYC & LA

SEXUALITY: Bisexual

FAVORITE COLOR: Pink

LIBATIONS: I enjoy an occasional glass of wine or champagne

DEPTH

HOBBIES: Reading, yoga, dancing, cycling, sunbathing

MOVIES: The Royal Tenenbaums, Darjeeling Limited, Charlie's Angels, Mulan, Spider-Man, Miyazaki

MUSIC: R&B, Indie, Hip Hop, Classical, Jazz, Punk...I like something from almost every genre

VACATION DESTINATION: Any beautiful beach, or historic city with gorgeous architecture. Koh Tao, Saigon, and Paris have especially woo'd me, and I can't wait to see more!

CUISINE: I swoon for any Asian cuisine, but I love good food from all over the world. I mostly avoid dairy (I refuse to give up pastries) but indulge in everything else.

FAVORITE DATES: I love trying new restaurants and showing you my faves. I also love the energy of live music, and the magic of theater from Broadway to the cinema. I enjoy hockey games, and I've never been to a professional fight but it's been on my bucket list.

WISHLIST: Mei's Wish List on Marigold

~ ready for heaven on earth? ~

RATES

RENDEZVOUS

7 minutes in heaven...except longer, and without the pressure.

Flutter By (1 Hour): 800

A Taste of Paradise

(1.5 Hours): 1000

Respite & Delight (2 Hours): 1200

DATES

*Time spent outside the room highly preferred. I've made some suggestions below, and am happy to offer specific options upon inquiry (after screening). Perhaps most of all, I adore a man with a plan- but don't be shy to ask for my input.

Pure Bliss (3 Hours): 1800

Suggested: Lunch, afternoon tea, or drinks & tapas

Lift Your Spirits (4 Hours): 2200

Suggested: Dinner, movie night, or live music

Simply Divine (6 Hours): 2600

Suggested: Sporting event, or dinner & a show

BY YOUR SIDE

Near Nirvana

(8 Hours): 3000

A full day or evening of fun and relaxation. (Not for overnights)

Heaven on Earth (Overnight): 3500

Up to 12 hours, plus cost of hotel if I book

Cloud Nine

(24 Hours): 6000

Earthly Companion

(48 Hours): 9000

Longer Getaways, Fly Me to You, Monthly Arrangements: Please inquire. My availability can be flexible, if you can give me some notice.

~ must read ~

FINER DETAILS

Availability

I also have a remote business where I set my own hours- so I can be where you want me to be, if you can give me some notice. I am generally not available last minute.
My homebase is NYC, though I spend a good amount of time in LA. Check my Tryst profile for tour dates.
While in NYC, I'm available within a 3h radius (minimum booking and/or travel fee may apply, depending how far).
Fly Me to You: Tell me where to meet you and I'm there. Available anywhere in the continental U.S. for 4+ hours, plus travel fee based on current travel costs.

Payments & Policies

Deposits: A 20-30% deposit will secure our date. Deposits are nonrefundable, but may be applied to a date for the future if rescheduled with at least 48 hours notice. On the rare occasion I need to cancel, I will fully refund your deposit. Deposits are accepted via Venmo, bitcoin, Zcash (the only actually private digital coin), or certain gift cards.
Cancellations: If cancelling with at least 48 hours notice, your deposit may be applied to a future date. If cancelling with less than 48 hours notice, 50% of the rate is due to stay in good standing and be able to book again in the future. Exceptions are made rarely and on a case-by-case basis. If you are sick, please reschedule.
Payments: Deposits may be made electronically, with the rest of the balance due in cash at the beginning of the date.
Discretion: I take discretion very seriously, and consider it a two-way street. I do not save your sensitive information or share details of our connection or activities anywhere (I may occasionally share photos from outings without connecting them to you, such as a snapshot of a well-plated dish, unless requested not to). I ask that intimate details of our time together be kept between us.

More is More

Couples rate: I adore couples. Please add $300 to the rate.
Duos: An easy way to have my heart! I have several friends I love to play with, just ask and I'll let you know who's available. I rate match, meaning whoever's rate is higher is what is paid to each.
In-date extensions: 600 for each additional hour, pending my availability.
Dates that conclude after 1a.m. (aside from overnights): Add $300

GALLERY

Let's Meet

Please send the following information to my secure and encrypted email:

meicartier@proton.me

About You

Name:
Phone (I will not contact you via phone unless requested later):
Anything you'd like me to know about you:

The Date

Date + time requested- if possible, please provide at least 2 dates that will work for you:
Length of Date:
Incall or Outcall, and location:
Outing, if booking a longer date:

Screening- Choose one:

Driver's license, ID, or work badge
2 references from the past year including their contact info and links to ad, socials, or website
Name + photo on a company website or press release